# Valentine's Day This or That Questions for Couples, Kids and Friends Source: https://thisorthatquestion.com/valentines-this-or-that Updated: 2026-11-11 Valentine's pairs for couples, classrooms, friends and coworkers, plus a candy and gift list for everyone. ## Quick facts - Valentine's Day this or that questions come in two kinds: date and romance pairs for couples, and candy and card pairs that suit kids and coworkers. - A class of 25 students can answer 10 valentine this or that questions in about 10 minutes using the stand-up, sit-down version. - Couples use the date pairs to plan the night. Any pair both people pick goes on the plan. - Galentine's Day falls on February 13. Friends use the same game to celebrate each other the day before Valentine's Day. - Candy pairs work for every age because nobody needs a partner to answer them. ## Valentine's day this or that questions for couples Ask these over dinner or text them to your partner the week before. Their answers tell you how to plan February 14. 1. Prix fixe dinner or Homemade pasta night? 2. Red roses or Wildflowers? 3. Card with a poem or Card with a joke? 4. Celebrate on the 14th or Celebrate the weekend after? 5. Matching red outfits or Wear whatever? 6. Classic romance movie or Valentine's horror movie? 7. Dessert first or Dessert last? 8. Champagne or Hot cocoa? 9. Fondue night or Chocolate-dipped strawberries? 10. Teddy bear or Balloon bouquet? 11. Jar of love notes or Scrapbook of the year? 12. Skip Valentine's or Go all out? 13. Propose on Valentine's or Propose any other day? ## This or that valentines edition: candy and gifts These pairs work with any group, from second graders to coworkers. Pass a bowl of candy hearts and let people vote with them. 1. Conversation hearts or Chocolate hearts? 2. Heart-shaped box or One fancy truffle? 3. Chocolate truffles or Chocolate bark? 4. Cinnamon hearts or Gummy hearts? 5. Red velvet cake or Strawberry shortcake? 6. Small gift under 20 dollars or One big gift? 7. Homemade gift or Store-bought gift? 8. Funny valentine card or Sappy valentine card? 9. Pink or Red? 10. Cupid's arrow or Lovebirds? 11. Chocolate-covered pretzels or Chocolate-covered cherries? 12. Flowers delivered or Flowers handed over? 13. Love letter in the mail or Love note on the mirror? ## Valentine this or that questions for the classroom Teachers read these at the class party. Students stand for the first option and sit for the second. 1. Monster valentine box or Robot valentine box? 2. Cards with candy or Cards with stickers? 3. Pencil valentines or Temporary tattoo valentines? 4. Heart cookies or Heart cupcakes? 5. Write a note on every card or Just sign your name? 6. Strawberry milk or Pink lemonade? 7. Card for the teacher or Card for the bus driver? 8. Glitter cards or Pop-up cards? 9. Puppy valentine or Dinosaur valentine? 10. Class party or Class movie? 11. Heart-shaped sandwich or Heart-shaped pancakes? ## This or that valentines day questions for friends and singles Couples do not own Valentine's Day. These pairs suit a Galentine's brunch, a singles night or a group chat on February 14. 1. Galentine's brunch or Galentine's movie night? 2. Anti-Valentine's party or Ignore the day? 3. Solo date or Friend date? 4. Candy on the 14th or Half-price candy on the 15th? 5. Secret admirer or Ask in person? 6. Blind date or Stay in? 7. Send yourself flowers or Buy yourself chocolate? 8. Single on Valentine's or Third wheel? 9. Speed dating or Singles mixer? 10. Heartbreak playlist or Love song karaoke? ## Funny valentines this or that questions for work Keep office pairs about candy, cards and puns. Leave dating pairs out of work channels. 1. Candy bowl at the desk or Card exchange? 2. Owl always love you or You're one in a melon? 3. Mushy card or Snarky card? 4. Valentine's cookie decorating or Valentine's trivia? 5. Heart sunglasses or Heart headband? 6. Cupid costume or Red sweater? 7. Heart-shaped pizza or Pink donuts? 8. Love-themed puns or Candy-themed puns? ## How to play valentines this or that 1. Pick the section that fits your group: couples, classroom, friends or office. 2. Choose 10 to 15 pairs. Print them with your browser's Print button, or open the random picker at /this-or-that-generator. 3. Read each pair aloud. Players vote by pointing, standing or holding up a red or pink card. 4. Ask one person from each side to give a reason. 5. Tally the votes and announce the most popular pick at the end. ## Tips for this or that valentine's day games - In a classroom, skip pairs about crushes or dating. Some students feel left out on February 14. - For couples, mix one planning pair with one silly pair so the game does not turn into a to-do list. - Over text, send one pair a day during the week before Valentine's Day. - At work, post pairs in a team channel and let coworkers vote with a heart or a candy emoji. - For a spicier round between adult partners, use the spicy page instead of this one. ## Frequently asked questions ### What is valentines this or that? Valentines this or that is a two-option question game for February 14, with pairs such as Red roses or Wildflowers and Chocolate truffles or Chocolate bark. Couples play it on a date, teachers use it at class parties, and friends use it at Galentine's brunch. Each person picks one side and gives a reason. The pairs below are sorted by audience. ### What are good valentines this or that questions? Good valentines this or that questions include Red roses or Wildflowers, Chocolate truffles or Chocolate bark, Card with a poem or Card with a joke, and Skip Valentine's or Go all out. Pick couple pairs for a date and candy pairs for groups. ### What are valentine's day this or that questions for kids? Kids' valentine's day this or that questions stick to candy and cards: Cards with candy or Cards with stickers, Heart cookies or Heart cupcakes, Puppy valentine or Dinosaur valentine. Skip anything about crushes. Ten pairs fit a class party. ### How do couples play valentine's day this or that? Couples take turns reading pairs and both answer at the same time. Any pair you both pick goes on your Valentine's plan. Twenty pairs take about 15 minutes over dinner or a drive. ### Can I post this or that valentines questions on social media? Yes. Instagram Stories poll stickers hold two options, so each pair fits one poll. Post one pair per story and share the results the next day. Facebook groups and team chats work the same way with a reaction vote. ### Are there valentine this or that questions for singles? Yes. The friends and singles section has pairs like Solo date or Friend date and Candy on the 14th or Half-price candy on the 15th. They work at a Galentine's brunch or an anti-Valentine's party. ### What are this or that valentine's day questions for work? Use candy, card and pun pairs at work, such as Candy bowl at the desk or Card exchange and Mushy card or Snarky card. Leave romance and dating pairs out. Post one pair a day in a team channel during February. ### What is the this or that valentine's edition? The this or that valentine's edition is the regular this or that game with February 14 themes: dates, roses, chocolate, cards and Cupid. This page sorts 55 pairs by audience so you can pick the right set for couples, kids, friends or coworkers.