Help and FAQ
Answers to common questions about using this site. For questions about a topic, such as kids or work, see the FAQ at the bottom of that page.
How do I use the random picker?
Every page has a picker under the title. It opens on that page's list. Press Next question for a new pair, or pick another list from the List menu. Tap an option to mark your pick. The picker never repeats the same pair twice in a row.
Which list should I start with?
Pick the list that matches who you are asking. The home page links to every list, grouped by audience, occasion, topic and format. For a mixed group, start with the easy questions on the home page.
Can I print a list or save it as a PDF?
Yes. Use the Print or save as PDF button next to the intro, or your browser's Print command. The print layout drops the menus and the picker, puts the questions in two columns and opens every FAQ answer. To save a PDF, choose Save as PDF as the printer.
Why do I not see the spicy questions in the picker?
The All lists option leaves out the 18+ list on purpose, so the picker stays safe for classrooms and families. Adults can choose Spicy (18+) from the List menu.
Do I need an account or an app?
No. Every list and the picker work in your browser with no sign-up, no download and no cookies.
Can I use these questions in my class, team meeting or event?
Yes. You can read, print and share the questions with your class, team, family or guests. The Terms and Conditions page explains what you can and cannot republish.
How do I suggest a question or report a mistake?
Email hello@thisorthatquestion.com with the page address and your suggestion. We read every message and fix errors as soon as we can.