Valentine's Day This or That Questions for Couples, Kids and Friends

Valentine's pairs for couples, classrooms, friends and coworkers, plus a candy and gift list for everyone.

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  2. This or that valentines edition: candy and gifts
  3. Valentine this or that questions for the classroom
  4. This or that valentines day questions for friends and singles
  5. Funny valentines this or that questions for work
  6. How to play valentines this or that
  7. Tips for this or that valentine's day games
  8. Frequently asked questions

Valentine's day this or that questions for couples

Ask these over dinner or text them to your partner the week before. Their answers tell you how to plan February 14.

  1. Prix fixe dinnerorHomemade pasta night?
  2. Red rosesorWildflowers?
  3. Card with a poemorCard with a joke?
  4. Celebrate on the 14thorCelebrate the weekend after?
  5. Matching red outfitsorWear whatever?
  6. Classic romance movieorValentine's horror movie?
  7. Dessert firstorDessert last?
  8. ChampagneorHot cocoa?
  9. Fondue nightorChocolate-dipped strawberries?
  10. Teddy bearorBalloon bouquet?
  11. Jar of love notesorScrapbook of the year?
  12. Skip Valentine'sorGo all out?
  13. Propose on Valentine'sorPropose any other day?
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This or that valentines edition: candy and gifts

These pairs work with any group, from second graders to coworkers. Pass a bowl of candy hearts and let people vote with them.

  1. Conversation heartsorChocolate hearts?
  2. Heart-shaped boxorOne fancy truffle?
  3. Chocolate trufflesorChocolate bark?
  4. Cinnamon heartsorGummy hearts?
  5. Red velvet cakeorStrawberry shortcake?
  6. Small gift under 20 dollarsorOne big gift?
  7. Homemade giftorStore-bought gift?
  8. Funny valentine cardorSappy valentine card?
  9. PinkorRed?
  10. Cupid's arroworLovebirds?
  11. Chocolate-covered pretzelsorChocolate-covered cherries?
  12. Flowers deliveredorFlowers handed over?
  13. Love letter in the mailorLove note on the mirror?

Valentine this or that questions for the classroom

Teachers read these at the class party. Students stand for the first option and sit for the second.

  1. Monster valentine boxorRobot valentine box?
  2. Cards with candyorCards with stickers?
  3. Pencil valentinesorTemporary tattoo valentines?
  4. Heart cookiesorHeart cupcakes?
  5. Write a note on every cardorJust sign your name?
  6. Strawberry milkorPink lemonade?
  7. Card for the teacherorCard for the bus driver?
  8. Glitter cardsorPop-up cards?
  9. Puppy valentineorDinosaur valentine?
  10. Class partyorClass movie?
  11. Heart-shaped sandwichorHeart-shaped pancakes?

This or that valentines day questions for friends and singles

Couples do not own Valentine's Day. These pairs suit a Galentine's brunch, a singles night or a group chat on February 14.

  1. Galentine's brunchorGalentine's movie night?
  2. Anti-Valentine's partyorIgnore the day?
  3. Solo dateorFriend date?
  4. Candy on the 14thorHalf-price candy on the 15th?
  5. Secret admirerorAsk in person?
  6. Blind dateorStay in?
  7. Send yourself flowersorBuy yourself chocolate?
  8. Single on Valentine'sorThird wheel?
  9. Speed datingorSingles mixer?
  10. Heartbreak playlistorLove song karaoke?

Funny valentines this or that questions for work

Keep office pairs about candy, cards and puns. Leave dating pairs out of work channels.

  1. Candy bowl at the deskorCard exchange?
  2. Owl always love youorYou're one in a melon?
  3. Mushy cardorSnarky card?
  4. Valentine's cookie decoratingorValentine's trivia?
  5. Heart sunglassesorHeart headband?
  6. Cupid costumeorRed sweater?
  7. Heart-shaped pizzaorPink donuts?
  8. Love-themed punsorCandy-themed puns?

How to play valentines this or that

  1. Pick the section that fits your group: couples, classroom, friends or office.
  2. Choose 10 to 15 pairs. Print them with your browser's Print button, or open the random picker at /this-or-that-generator.
  3. Read each pair aloud. Players vote by pointing, standing or holding up a red or pink card.
  4. Ask one person from each side to give a reason.
  5. Tally the votes and announce the most popular pick at the end.

Tips for this or that valentine's day games

  • In a classroom, skip pairs about crushes or dating. Some students feel left out on February 14.
  • For couples, mix one planning pair with one silly pair so the game does not turn into a to-do list.
  • Over text, send one pair a day during the week before Valentine's Day.
  • At work, post pairs in a team channel and let coworkers vote with a heart or a candy emoji.
  • For a spicier round between adult partners, use the spicy page instead of this one.

Frequently asked questions

What is valentines this or that?

Valentines this or that is a two-option question game for February 14, with pairs such as Red roses or Wildflowers and Chocolate truffles or Chocolate bark. Couples play it on a date, teachers use it at class parties, and friends use it at Galentine's brunch. Each person picks one side and gives a reason. The pairs below are sorted by audience.

Good valentines this or that questions include Red roses or Wildflowers, Chocolate truffles or Chocolate bark, Card with a poem or Card with a joke, and Skip Valentine's or Go all out. Pick couple pairs for a date and candy pairs for groups.

Kids' valentine's day this or that questions stick to candy and cards: Cards with candy or Cards with stickers, Heart cookies or Heart cupcakes, Puppy valentine or Dinosaur valentine. Skip anything about crushes. Ten pairs fit a class party.

Couples take turns reading pairs and both answer at the same time. Any pair you both pick goes on your Valentine's plan. Twenty pairs take about 15 minutes over dinner or a drive.

Yes. Instagram Stories poll stickers hold two options, so each pair fits one poll. Post one pair per story and share the results the next day. Facebook groups and team chats work the same way with a reaction vote.

Yes. The friends and singles section has pairs like Solo date or Friend date and Candy on the 14th or Half-price candy on the 15th. They work at a Galentine's brunch or an anti-Valentine's party.

Use candy, card and pun pairs at work, such as Candy bowl at the desk or Card exchange and Mushy card or Snarky card. Leave romance and dating pairs out. Post one pair a day in a team channel during February.

The this or that valentine's edition is the regular this or that game with February 14 themes: dates, roses, chocolate, cards and Cupid. This page sorts 55 pairs by audience so you can pick the right set for couples, kids, friends or coworkers.

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